Why Mothers will always be Important

  Today we recall if  you're my age, your mother. Mine, Elizabeth passed away yesterday it seems, no it was eighteen years gone. She had done her best, she had weathered the course of five births and raising alone, for the most part, four children.

  Here I sit a wannabe author writing books probably nobody will read,  I do remember my Mamma.

So of you may recall, if you had a TV in the mid-nineteen fifties a series on CBS called, " I Remember Mamma?
 As a kid, I had my Mamma, she was young and so was I. I surely lived in fear that somehow my fate would be what orphans experience, no Mamma.

  When I had matured, I became a wannabe expert in every field that a library had a book about.

I knew about Freud and others, how what we think we are, well, it's just not quite true. We begin to experience and remember when we are still inside our Mamma and after birth, those experiences people say a baby doesn't recall, we know now are buried deep in the unknown spooky realm of the unconscious.

 So I was a baby, only four pounds, separated too early,  put on life support. If I had been born anywhere else or at a different time, I would have a little lamb's stone in the family plot.
Can I blame my lackluster life to being with no Mamma for months after birth? Well, we can't go there, we do know premature babies have a hard time in life, some more than others.

After a child is born, we must have our mothers and if we are separated, permanent brain damage results. If you doubt and how could you, read the work of Harry Harlow and the little monkey who had only a cloth mother to cling to. Harlow was later accused of animal abuse and who could deny what he did was cruel, even for a monkey. 

Imagine if you will all over the world children without loving mothers or worse none at all.